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Are you an ethical wedding planner?

Ethical Wedding Planner

One of your responsibilities as a professional wedding planner and business owner is showing others that you’re ethical.

Don’t underestimate the importance of being fair and honest. Sounds cheesy, I know, but to give you some idea of what I’m referring to, take a look at this scenario:

Let’s say you have two appointments scheduled this week with brides who are interested in your wedding planning services. During your first meeting with Bride #1, after hearing all about what she and her fiance envision for their big day, you tell her that your full-service planning package fee is $4,000.

Later on that week you meet with Bride #2, who, by the way, is dressed in a designer outfit and sporting what has to be 6-carat diamond engagement ring. Based on your observation, this time, you quote your full-service planning package fee as $6,000.

Even though both weddings will require the same amount of your professional time and energy to plan, you make the decision to quote different fees because of what you think each bride can afford.

Not good!

Can you imagine the fallout if both of these women are friends and, somehow, exchange notes about their meetings with you? (Stranger things have happened!) You can kiss your credibility as a professional goodbye and it’s likely that neither bride will hire you.

From day one as a business owner, make a point of being honest and fair. Growing up, my mom had a favorite saying (one of several, actually): “Lies don’t have memories” meaning it’s harder to keep a series of lies straight than it is to be honest. And what do you know…Mom was right!

As a wedding planner, be consistent with your fees. If you prefer to have a flexible pricing structure in place, then instead of getting caught up in a situation similar to the one I just described, set up your planning fees as a percentage of your bride’s budget. Doing so is a simple and effective way to charge, however this method works best if you are an experienced wedding planner. Generally, a percentage of 10 – 20% of the wedding budget is the norm.

In light of some of the bigger business scandals that have made headline news in US history–can you say Enron or WorldCom?!–you might believe that this is no big deal. After all, you’re just a small business owner trying to make a living, right? But, the truth is, there’s a connection between your strong business morals and the ultimate success of your wedding business.

Do the right thing!


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